I am not a relationship specialist…
It is ok for us to take a break we are not in a race. We multitask and take up too much on ourselves. We need to constantly check if our glass is full. once our glass is full we get snappy and then God save the family as a simple good morning can drive us up the wall. You are not alone when you feel the guilt of not knowing why you snapped at your child, why you sounded irritated to a suggestion made by your husband, if in-laws live together then that’s icing on the cake, major guilt after venting about all this and more.
Miraculously, your partner is not going to change, accept it at the same time we have to make a small shift in our belief, and just by doing this, we will end up being happy every day. We will learn to love ourselves, listen to ourselves, and once this shift happens the whole family shifts magically.
Basically, a woman is a superpower, a source of love, a source of nurturer, a source of compassion, and if we don’t take measures to get hold of our lives we will live in the world of guilt, feeling incomplete. Be kind to yourself and stop judging yourself. If you are judgmental about yourself you are creating the ripple for others around you to judge as well.
I am a partner in my husbands business as I love it, I love to work and this is my choice and my husband loves this, I am also able to enjoy simple pleasures at home without having to make a scene for it. I don’t need a recognition I am a super woman. Today, when I am too tired I say bye to the kids and watch my husband take them to school, which gives me extra time to complete my morning rituals meditation, gratitude, affirmation, and a bit of exercise. Life is beautiful.
I am not a relationship expert…